My Memories of Kate

Organized, smart and very talented. Supportive and caring she was to me. Inquisitive and at times apprehensive about adapting her journalistic training to keep up with the new demands brought on by digital media. We often talked about how to remain competitive and marketable in an every changing industry.  She was a comrade in the fight to survive and remain relevant in an industry that is increasingly mundane and superficial.

Kate Megargee was a loving daughter who cared for her Mother in every possible way. She loved her "Mommy".  During the time we worked together at NJN Public Television we talked about caring for our aging parents. We shared personal experiences about the constant struggle to find a balance between the demands of care giving and finding time to take care of ourselves. We talked about what its like when a parent's ability to  care for themselves gradually diminishes. And we watch them become vulnerable.  Trying to do all we can to help them retain dignity and independence. Its a fine line.  Physically and emotionally taxing. But when their last breath is taken, we agreed that the the sadness will be softened just a bit, by knowing we've  done our part and loved our Moms and Dads with all the dedication, passion and love they bestowed on us.

I remember the girl talk we shared about love and relationships, marriage and living single. The quest for happiness. The search for the elusive Mr. Right.
She congratulated me on my engagement and was so very excited about my marriage. We talked about remaining hopeful, not giving up, building a life of your own and making the best of your situation.

Kate was trooper. Strong and capable. She was a friend.  A sweetheart. A warm and kind person. I'm glad we knew each other. But more importantly I'm glad we shared.

Rest in peace Kate. Give our Moms my Love.